Staged change rather than instant change

https://karenlreyburn.com/staged-change-not-instant-change/

Change takes adjustment: for you and for others. Whether it’s helping the team change the way you do things at the firm, or sharing systems or price changes with clients, or scaling your business: trying to make the change instantly will likely be tough. 

Instant change shocks you and surprises you. And you don’t know what to do with it, so you can default to fear. Or confusion. Or reverting to the way you did things before. 

One of my coaching clients is working on changing his approach with both clients and team. “Up til now I’ve been very me and company centric,” he told me. “And it’s time for that to change.” 

He read the Accountant Marketer and is now working through each of the sections with me so he can apply them to his firm. But even slight changes like asking new prospects, “So, what motivated you to start this business?” is an adjustment. It’s always been accounting, bookkeeping, numbers focused. Nothing about motivations or emotions. 

But we make changes because we want some kind of change to happen. This firm owner wants to get more of the kind of clients he loves working with: and that means opening up with prospects. Asking deeper questions. Listening. 

This change will have an impact on the firm’s numbers. On their operations. On the conversations they have as a team. 

Another change he’s considering is beginning to get his team members share questions clients are asking, to build a library of content answering these questions. The “they ask you answer” approach some of you are already long familiar with. But remember the early days when you started this, and it was new and different? Remember how long it took to make it a habit? 

As we talked about how to involve the team in something brand-new for them, he considered the impact of making very tiny changes rather than dramatic ones. 

Instead of suddenly holding a two-hour session gathering all the client questions and asking team members to write blog posts, he’s simply going to use five minutes of the next team meeting to introduce the concept and ask for one or two questions that a client has asked that week. 

Then in the next team meet he’ll do it again. Then in the next, and the next, and the next. 

He’s doing the same with the kind of conversations he has with clients. We talked about sending out emails to existing clients to offer a conversation about strategy and big picture and motivations, but after testing it with a few clients, he got no takers. They’re not used to this. It’s too big, too dramatic. So instead he will adjust gradually, in stages. In the next client meet, ask one small question. How were things in the business this week? Anything which is particularly tough for you right now? Something to start that level of conversation going. They may not answer it. They may not feel comfortable with that: and that’s okay. But the very tiny changes will be easier to accept than something dramatic. 

Instead of going 0 to 100, can you stage it? 20-80, then 50-50, then 80-20…and then when you’re ready, 100-0. 

What big change would you love to make? Is there a very tiny change you can start with which leads towards it? 

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ON THE GRAM

I admit it: I’m still spending more time than I want to, sitting in an office chair in front of a desk, holding Zoom calls.

I’m most efficient with my familiar setup - the big screen, the higher quality microphone and camera, the lighting. It’s easier to run the strategy calls and plan the videos and get through the to do list.

But the work I enjoy the most I can do from my big yellow chair (with yellow footstool). 

Writing content for one of my upcoming books; strategising plans for a team retreat; ringing a client or team member on the actual phone (!), writing these creative headspace notes.

The chair is comfortable. My feet are propped up. There’s space for tea or coffee. It faces a different direction than my desk does. It changes my perspective and my attitude.

Yellow chair work is:

….Flexible. 
It doesn’t have a hard and fast “join time” (like when someone doesn’t show up after 3 minutes and I’m sending emails and Whatsapp messages to check).

….Relaxed. 
I’m not switching from one meet to another, frantically dashing off summary bullet points and updating project management. I’m sitting back with the laptop on my knee, not bolt upright in my office chair.

….Spacious. 
This is true creative headspace work: There’s room to think, to stare off into the distance, to breathe.

….Big picture. 
It relates to big goals for myself and my company: books I’m writing, a podcast to start, LeaderShift sessions for the team.
…:More offline than online. 

I may be on my laptop, but Slack is closed and my phone is flipped over facing down, and my Google docs and sheets are in offline mode, so I can be focused.

The more yellow chair work I do, the closer I am to reaching my personal goals as a business owner. 

Of course the reverse can also be true: if I haven’t done yellow chair work in a long time, it’s good to get in the yellow chair and think about why that is.

Your life and business goals may look different, but I’m curious what your version of yellow-chair work is?

✨ Creative Headspace notes go out every Saturday morning. Link in bio or story to sign up and make sure you’re getting your own headspace (or yellow chair work)! 💛