Staged change rather than instant change

https://karenlreyburn.com/staged-change-not-instant-change/

Change takes adjustment: for you and for others. Whether it’s helping the team change the way you do things at the firm, or sharing systems or price changes with clients, or scaling your business: trying to make the change instantly will likely be tough. 

Instant change shocks you and surprises you. And you don’t know what to do with it, so you can default to fear. Or confusion. Or reverting to the way you did things before. 

One of my coaching clients is working on changing his approach with both clients and team. “Up til now I’ve been very me and company centric,” he told me. “And it’s time for that to change.” 

He read the Accountant Marketer and is now working through each of the sections with me so he can apply them to his firm. But even slight changes like asking new prospects, “So, what motivated you to start this business?” is an adjustment. It’s always been accounting, bookkeeping, numbers focused. Nothing about motivations or emotions. 

But we make changes because we want some kind of change to happen. This firm owner wants to get more of the kind of clients he loves working with: and that means opening up with prospects. Asking deeper questions. Listening. 

This change will have an impact on the firm’s numbers. On their operations. On the conversations they have as a team. 

Another change he’s considering is beginning to get his team members share questions clients are asking, to build a library of content answering these questions. The “they ask you answer” approach some of you are already long familiar with. But remember the early days when you started this, and it was new and different? Remember how long it took to make it a habit? 

As we talked about how to involve the team in something brand-new for them, he considered the impact of making very tiny changes rather than dramatic ones. 

Instead of suddenly holding a two-hour session gathering all the client questions and asking team members to write blog posts, he’s simply going to use five minutes of the next team meeting to introduce the concept and ask for one or two questions that a client has asked that week. 

Then in the next team meet he’ll do it again. Then in the next, and the next, and the next. 

He’s doing the same with the kind of conversations he has with clients. We talked about sending out emails to existing clients to offer a conversation about strategy and big picture and motivations, but after testing it with a few clients, he got no takers. They’re not used to this. It’s too big, too dramatic. So instead he will adjust gradually, in stages. In the next client meet, ask one small question. How were things in the business this week? Anything which is particularly tough for you right now? Something to start that level of conversation going. They may not answer it. They may not feel comfortable with that: and that’s okay. But the very tiny changes will be easier to accept than something dramatic. 

Instead of going 0 to 100, can you stage it? 20-80, then 50-50, then 80-20…and then when you’re ready, 100-0. 

What big change would you love to make? Is there a very tiny change you can start with which leads towards it? 

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Instant change can shock or surprise you. 

You don’t know what to do with it, so you can default to fear. Or confusion. Or reverting to the way you did things before. 

One of my coaching clients is working on changing his approach with the business owners he talks to.

“Up til now I’ve been very me and company centric,” he told me. “And it’s time for that to change.” 

It’s always been accounting, bookkeeping, numbers focused. Nothing about motivations or emotions. 

He read the Accountant Marketer and is now working through each of the sections with me so he can apply them to his firm. 

But even slight changes like asking new prospects, “So, what motivated you to start this business?” is an adjustment. 

But we make changes because we want some kind of change to happen. 

This firm owner wants to get more of the kind of clients he loves working with: and that means opening up with prospects. 

Asking deeper questions. Listening. 

This change will have an impact on the firm’s numbers. On their operations. On the conversations they have as a team. 

We talked about sending out emails to existing clients to offer a conversation about strategy and big picture and motivations, but after testing it with a few clients, he got no takers. 

They’re not used to this. It’s too big, too dramatic. 

So instead he will adjust gradually, in stages. 

In the next client meet, ask one small question. 

How were things in the business this week? Anything which is particularly tough for you right now? 

Something to start that level of conversation going. 

They may not answer it. They may not feel comfortable with that: and that’s okay. But the very tiny changes will be easier to accept than something dramatic. 

Instead of going 0 to 100, can you stage it? 

20-80…

then 50-50…

then 80-20…

…and then when you’re ready, 100-0. 

#theaccountantmarketer #change #stages #justkeepgoing #onestepatatime #progress 

➡️This is from my “creative headspace” notes which go out every Friday. These remind you to change your perspective. Pause. Look around. Breathe. To be on the list, follow the link in bio.💪✨
100 consecutive days of video: DONE!!! 

I’ve stuck to my challenge. I haven’t missed a single day. And now I get to start the reflections. 

I’ve made a real effort not to over-reflect early: but to focus on getting the challenge done. Then I can look back and see what I’ve learned, how it’s impacted me and my business, and what I’ll take from it for future videos. 

Here are just a few of my initial learnings: 

1. Plan the video. The earlier in the day I shoot it or consider what it will be, the easier and smoother everything goes 

2. Capture little bits of video throughout the day (or days) to be used with a theme later. One second, ten second, one minute videos came in really handy when I did a compilation video - of walking, or water, or travels, or working. 

3. Being “on” every day - being present on social media and not missing a single day for 100 days - is bloody hard. I am really looking forward to being able to not open instagram if I don’t want to. And I’ll look forward to falling asleep at 11pm without the gasp of “did I do my video today???” 

4. I’m really grateful. For all I’ve learned and seen and heard and experienced and shared: and for how it will impact my future videos. 

Thank you for being with me on the journey. ❤️

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