Keep going. (The little things matter.)

Keep going. (The little things matter.)

Keep going. (The little things matter.)

There’s a lot of talk about how you have to love what you do. How you can wake up every morning full of enthusiasm and joy and sparkle, and every moment is a winning moment. Sure, okay, you have a few instances that are tough, but you leap up from the ground, dust yourself off, and dash off in the other direction smiling. How if you don’t have that, what are you even doing anyway? Or maybe it’s time for a change.

I really believe in joy, and in using the gifts and talents you’ve been given in the best possible way.

I also believe in hard work, that you keep doing what you need to do, in small ways, until the joy comes.

And I’ve been thinking a lot about our expectations in work. If our expectations are that every day is full of energy and drive, and we’re nailing it right and left, what happens on the days when things are tough? What happens if we have a few difficult things one after the other?

Joy in your work isn’t a given. It’s not a ‘right’ that the world is required to give you. It’s the accumulation of finding what you’re really good at, what people need and will pay for, and what you enjoy.

Some days, you’ll really enjoy it. You’ll walk out of a meeting or end a video call and be full of excitement. You helped them! They’re inspired, strengthened! Their business or life is better and you’re part of it!

Some days, you’re keeping going. You’re continuing to do what you’re really good at, and helping people to see how much they need what you deliver.

Some days, you’re struggling. There are hard things, and you seem to be going two steps forward and one step back. You wonder what progress you’re making at all.

And most days are a combination of all of them.

Up, and down.

Forward, and back.

Win, and loss.

I’ve been thinking a lot about the little things, and their accumulation over time.

This is really what it comes down to.

All the big brilliant ideas, and new things, and significant changes boil down to the very little tasks which build up to a greater accomplishment: but you must keep going. The ones you’re consistent with are the ones which will deliver the joy in the long run.

Some of the little and big things I’m working on right now are…

PF Dashboard app: We’ve built an app to help our clients manage their marketing actions on a monthly basis. They’ll be able to log in, see their ‘marketing credits’ (our currency of outsourced marketing items), request new work, submit changes, share ideas. And in order for it to work and be useful for our clients, I’ve got to do a lot of very small actions each day on this big area. Have the meeting, send the email, make a note of the changes, record the video. This will look like a huge, big, amazing thing when we fully launch it: but it’s an accumulation of small things over the past full year.

Progress: The app is now, finally, live for beta testing. We’re testing it with existing clients over the next few months.

Losing weight: I discovered a few weeks ago that I’m nearly 60 pounds overweight (over 4 stone). It creeps up on you: a little here, a little there. Overeating here, lack of exercise there. In order to fix that, it’s small daily actions the other way. Counting calories, and stopping when I hit the limit. Going out for a walk every day, even a short one if that’s all I can do. Saying no to sugar, every single day. (I’m using an app called “I Am Sober” which remarkably includes sugar in the list of addictions. And sugar absolutely is an addiction.)

Progress: I’ve lost 7.2 pounds in three weeks.

DIY Campaigns: My creative agency works with accountancy firms to deliver custom, unique content marketing on a monthly basis. It’s what we’re good at and it’s something not many (if any) other marketing agencies truly deliver. But after 7 years of working exclusively with accounting firms on their marketing, we see patterns. Problems that crop up time and time again, with the same issues and the same things that will get them solutions. So we’re now creating little “DIY packages”, crafting what is essentially a product that will solve one specific problem for accountants, giving them everything they need to start. For the past six months we’ve been talking about onboarding, running webinars, listening to the problems accountants have in this area, writing articles, posting on social, and crafting a solution to this particular problem. Little steps here, little steps there (by me but mostly by the amazing PF team!).

Progress: The new Kick Start onboarding campaign launches next week!

Memorisation: One of the areas I want to improve on personally is stretching my mind. All this online and social and being constantly on and able to get answers instantly makes me a bit lazy. It’s hard to pay attention to even a two hour film. I struggle to finish reading a few chapters of a book without distraction. I can’t seem to keep facts in my head. So to stretch this, I’m working on memorisation – and I’ve chosen a book of the Bible called James. It’s full of good practicality on living life well, and with honour, and it’s a good thing to fill my head with. It’s five chapters (1742 words), which is a lot to memorise, word for word. But I began to notice the power of simply reading the same thing every morning, so that’s what I’m doing. Reading it, aloud, every morning. Most days I don’t even have to look at it anymore in order to read it aloud from memory.

Progress: I’ve memorised all of chapter one, and most of chapter two.

See the pattern? Little things. Day by day. All seemingly so small, so insignificant in the grand scheme of things. How can I expect to have a completely changed life if I’m not doing dramatic things?

But when you keep going on the small things, the end result is dramatic.

Keep going.

It’s worth it!

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ON THE GRAM

Well. So. Small update.

Was out hiking on mull and slipped on a rock crossing a burn, and broke my ankle. (I remember hearing an audible “crack” as I went down.)

No signal on phone. Managed to climb down a ravine to get to a more open place and hopefully signal. At that point still convinced it “wasn’t that bad”. Tried to walk along the path and realised yes, it was that bad.

Phoned coast guard, who were utter legends. Sent a boat AND a helicopter. Sun was setting and they didn’t want me sitting in the dark. Oh my word it was cold. Helicoptered out to fort William hospital (nicest people ever), then down to airdrie where I got a cast.

Ankle broken in one place. Doctors pleased (as much as you can be!) it’s a clean break & lining up well. I’ll be down for 4-6 weeks.

I’ve repeated myself a lot over the last few days so here’s the short version to all the questions, with appreciation for the care.

Yes, I’m okay. I’m also utterly exhausted & have hit the “damn, this is going to be a long road” phase. Taking it one day, one hour at a time. 

I’m being looked after. Very kind friends and things being delivered. My amazing sister @secondsunrise2 flying in tomorrow from america to be with me for a few weeks. SO grateful.

What do I need? I’m good on the basics. There have been unexpected costs and more coming so if you want to PayPal monies for deliveries or getting my car & belongings back or all the taxis or whatever, feel free. I’m hardly destitute so only do that if you want to send something useful and aren’t sure what. PayPal username karenlreyburn. Amazon wishlist in bio. Random care packages also happily received!

My car & belongings are up on mull. I have people to help and we are working on timing. But if you’re on mull and want to return a car near Glasgow, let me know :)

Shout out to the Coast Guard for being so swift, & that beautiful combination of sympathy and practicality.

Download the @what3words app. Literal lifesaver.

That’s all for now. All the love. Oh - and no, I don’t hold this against mull at all. It’s still my happy place. Things happen & the mull community has been beautiful. Shout out to @treshnish who couldn’t have been kinder. ❤️
Morning walk. I stood and watched the ferry come in and the sun lighten this little edge of the world.
Been going through old photos and letters - the last of the boxes i had stored at my sister’s house in america. 

When I first moved to Scotland, I only planned to live here for a few years and then go back. Then after a few years I wasn’t ready yet…then I got my residency…still not quite ready….then started a business…then Scottish citizenship…bought a house …finally accepted this is my home and I wasn’t moving back. 

And with every visit back to the states I would go through more boxes, more photos and letters and memories. I’d keep some and throw others away; take photos out of frames and give away the frames; and as time went on I was able to distinguish between the ones I definitely wanted and needed to keep, and those which were lovely at the time but didn’t need to be saved anymore.

Over twenty years on and this past trip I went through the very last of the boxes. I joked to my sister that I’ve now officially settled into Scotland 😆 

This photo of me and my Gramps is a fave and definitely a keeper. Most of the photos and letters I’ve kept are those of family - parents, grandparents, sisters, nieces and nephews. And as much as I love taking landscape photos, I noticed that 20 years later it’s the people photos I am more likely to keep. Thankful for the traditions and patterns of seeing family every year or so since moving to Scotland. They’re small things - baking Christmas cookies and going for walks and going for road trips - but it’s the time together and the continuing family jokes and the memories which remain. And a few photos.

My grandfather (and all my grandparents) have now passed on, but I remember with fondness sitting around at their kitchen table, eating fresh vegetables from the garden, playing scrabble, laughing and talking and drinking coffee.

It’s the small things, and the rhythms of family, which last. ❤️ 
#family #memories #grandparents #oldphotos
Made fresh mince pies for the first time ever. Over twenty years in Scotland and I’d never tried to make them from scratch, so I figured…now is the time! I’m doing lots of thanksgiving baking (yes, we stretch it out here so I’m still prepping!) and decided to buy the ingredients. 

Dried fruit…mixed peel…lots of spices…and Venezuelan rum :) I made up the mincemeat last night, and then today put it in the little pastries and even cut out the wee stars to go on top!

I think I can safely say they’re the best mince pies I’ve ever had. Fresh out of the oven sprinkled with icing sugar and with a glass of said rum alongside :) 

Now we are curled up with a Harry Potter marathon, with plenty of mince pies AND a thanksgiving feast still to come. Happiness! 

#mincepies #homebaking #maryberry #maryberryrecipe #happythanksgiving #happychristmas #harrypotter #hpmarathon