Author Archives: Karen Reyburn

Planning is everything (and then it’s easy)

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This week I finished the DIY project of my downstairs bathroom. When I say ā€œDIYā€, this means ā€œI hired a joiner to completely renovate the entire room and then I painted itā€, which I say counts. But actually that was part of the problem. I figured once the joiner had come in to strip the

The (un)awkward silence: leaving space for people to think

We had a training session at PF this week on using more ā€œdefinitive languageā€. Examples included ā€œWe believeā€ or ā€œI get itā€ or ā€œThis works becauseā€¦ā€ You use them in place of vague, rambly language. The kind which expresses uncertainty: ā€œI thinkā€ ā€œIā€m not sure if that’s the bestā€ ā€œHere’s what worries meā€ ā€œJustā€ ā€œSort

Green flags and gold flags: looking for the good qualities, too

You know how to spot red flags. You’re not always sure how to define them, and you’re working on defining it, but when the flag starts waving, you know things aren’t going to be good. The client who doesn’t show up to meetings. The prospect who asks about price first. The applicant who doesn’t want

I don’t actually want to be polarising

The best way to get engagement is to make strong, polarising, evenĀ outrageous statements.Ā  You’ll get more likes. More views. More haters too, but then that counts as engagement cos you can respond to them and then more people see it and that’s the point, isn’t it? More people, more comments, more visibility? Maybe. Maybe for

Pink flags: Not quite red flags, but…

You know what a red flag is. Warning, danger, ā€œbad gut feelingā€, something was said or done which is an indicator this (whatever ā€˜this’ is) will not go well. Prospective client or team member, new client relationship, business opportunity such as a merger or sale. In any of these (and many other) situations we stay

ā€œTarget audienceā€? You’re not shooting at them. You’re inviting them.

ā€˜Target audience’ is one of those marketing phrases which gets used without a great deal of thought. Yes, you could also say ā€˜ideal audience’ or ā€˜client avatar’ or some other official sounding phrase, but as with all marketing terminology I prefer to question everything. Target. Why target? Where does that come from? A target is

Listen to that ā€œlittle voiceā€ which reminds you to do (or say) something

You know when you think, ā€œOh, I meant to message that person forā€¦ā€ (whatever it was), and you don’t, and then later on that day they message you to ask about the thing? You think (or say) ā€œAhhh, I was literally just thinking of you today and meant to get in touch!ā€ And sort of